Gia Ton Erwta....

Moiazei parado3o,sxedon asteio to pws oi an8rwpoi sunh8izoun na apofeugoun na pragmateutoun thn ennoia tou erwta....Ki omws giati?

Isws giati mesa mas esfalmena tautizoume thn ennoia tou erwta me to sex..thn sarkikh epi8umia, ta zwwdh mas enstikta...

Ki omws auth h tauthsh einai apolutws au8aireth kai lan8asmenh...

Sth zwh kai thn enwsh duo an8rwpwn h' duo embiwn ontwn mporoume na poume pws h epi8umia orizetai ws mia kentromolos dunamh....enw anti8eta o erwtas san mia fugokentros...

H sarkikh epi8umia einai aplhsth...anikanopoihth...oso perissotero thn ikanopoieis toso perissotero desmios ths ginesai...toso perissotero thn exeis anagkh...

H sarkikh epi8umia se kanei na blepeis ton allo ws meso ikanopoihshs ths...san antikeimeno...

O erwtas anti8eta thn 3epernaei...upswnetai panw kai pera apo authn...spaei ka8e egwistiko h' egwkentriko teixos tou eautou sou...Ginesai to meso ikanopoihshs twn anagkwn...twn "8elw" tou allou...

Eisai eutuxismenos,ikanopoihmenos,plhrhs mesa apo thn eutuxia, thn ikanopoihsh,thn plhrwthta tou allou...

To sex , h sarkikh epi8umia tautizetai me enan illiggo ais8hsewn kai ere8ismatwn, einai h anatara3h twn neurikwn mhxanismwn,ena rigos,mia zalh,mia eswterikh diegersh,me pio apla logia, enas organikos sunagermos...

H akoresth dipsa ikanopoihshs ths,odhgei se mia diarkh anazhthsh....einai mia dipsa basanisthkh,mia ormh adamasth pou den gnwrizei thn plhrwthta, ton koresmo,akribws giati h ikanopoihsh ths thn diegeirei akomh perissotero...Oso perissotero ikanopoieitai,toso pio entonh ginetai...

Anti8eta o erwtas den upagetai toso s'autes tis sarkikes ore3eis...3epetietai panw apo thn epi8umia tou swmatos...ginetai epi8umia tou pneumatos...

H se3oualikh epi8umia mporei safws na upar3ei xwris twn erwta...alla auto pou 8a meinei einai panta ena ais8hma hmiteleias, ena ais8hma kenothtas...

Anti8eta o erwtas sunufenetai me authn thn epi8umia,odhgwntas thn se entelws diaforetika monopatia...

O erwtas kanei to pneuma na anazhta thn oloklhrwsh mesw ths oloklhrwshs tou allou..H roph ths epi8umias antistrefetai....H kinhsh dieu8unetai apo ena au8uparkto "allo" pou kalei to "egw" na stafei pros auto kai na enw8ei mazi tou...

Alla as mh biastoume na kathgorhsoume tous an8rwpous pou euhsuxazontai sthn epi8umia...

Zoume se epoxes makran apo3enwmenes apo auth tou romantismou...O romantismos upokinountan apo mia diarkh anazhthsh tou apolutou erwta pou 8a epefere thn apoluth oloklhrwsh...

Gia na mporesoume omws na aggi3oume ton erwta prepei na eimaste diate8hmenoi na gkremisoume ta teixh pou upswnei to "egw" mas...na ginoume eualwtoi...diafanoi...

Fusika o erwtas mporei na ginei epiponos...marthrikos...enas ka8hmerinos 8anatos..

Se kairous pou h euais8hsia...h endei3h adunamias...an8rwpias,exoun xarakthristei adunamia xarakthra....se kairous pou apaitoun sta8erothta,adiala3ia,s8enos,peisma kai egwismo,den einai a3io aporias giati o erwtas exei ftasei na suriknonetai sth zwwdh kai rixh morfh tou.....to sex...

O erwtas apaitei thn ka8upota3h tou "egw"...thn enwsh tou me ena "egw" kapoiou allou...

Osoi zoun enan alh8ino erwta 3eroun pws einai na blepeis apo ta matia tou allou...na anasaineis apo tous pneumones tou...na skeftesai...na ais8anesai...na zeis arrikta sundedemena me ton allo k ekeinos m esena...na eiste mazi enas an8rwpos........oi duo opseis tou idiou nomismatos....

Safws kai h anazhthsh enos "etairou hmisi" apotelei gia pollous mia outopia....den einai omws....

Ofeileis apla na exeis ta matia ths psuxhs anoixta kai ta aftia ths kardias tentomena...

H zwh moiazei me mia poreia...ena dromo me polles parakampseis kai diakladwseis...alles apla mas bgazoun apo th poreia mas gia ligo...mas odhgoun se nea monopatia ki alles suxna se adie3oda....exoume apoluth eleu8eria na dokimasoume oses 8eloume kai na parablepsoume alles toses....

Otan omws bre8oume s'ena staurodromi ,mia apo tis polles parakampseis pou ennwnoun th zwh mas me th zwh kapoiou allou, mporoume panta na apofasisoume na sunexisoume thn poreia mas akolou8ontas auto to neo orizonta...

Duo poreies zwhs temnontai kai sunexizoun apo ekei kai pera mazi...san mia....auto einai o erwtas...

Gia na upar3ei entoutois oloklhrwsh,prepei amfoteroi oi an8rwpoi na niw8oun e3 isou thn pneumatikh anagkh gia enwsh...

An enas apo tous duo den mporei na anoix8ei,na apota3ei tous fragmous tou,tote o erwtas ginetai monopleuros....arrwsthmenos...

Oso pio grhgora antilhf8oume kati tetoio,toso pio grhgora kai a8oruba prepei na apomakrun8oume apo mia tetoia noshrh katastash....O erwtas xwris antapokrhsh ponaei perissotero apo opoiodhpote basanisthrio....giati einai basanisthrio psuxhs...kardias kai nou...einai arrwstia xwris 8erapeia......h monh 8erapeia einai h upoxwrhsh...

Den mporeis na biaseis ton erwta mesa apo kapoion...den mporeis na ton e3anagkaseis...

O erwtas den upolkeitai sth logikh...einai eleu8eros...au8airetos...ane3arthtos..

Den epilegeis basei logikwn krithriwn poion 8a agaphseis...poion 8a erwteuteis..

An o erwtas kaloupw8ei se logikes kai praktikous sullogismous,pauei na einai sunais8hma....pauei na einai erwtas...ginetai sumbash.....ki auto einai tragiko...tragiko kai 8libero...

Par'ola auta mia teleutaia uposhmeiwsh gia tous tuxerous pou brhkan ton erwta....to allo tous miso......

Pote mhn epanapaues8e stis dafnes ths katakthshs sas...

Mporei h katakthsh tou erwta na einai duskolh,omws h diathrhsh ths flogas tou einai akomh pio apaithtikh....Ka8e mera einai diaforetikh...ka8e stigmh einai monadikh...

An eiste pragmatika erwteumenoi prepei ka8e stigmh na eiste se 8esh na to apodei3ete...na agwnisteite na diathrhsete to fws kai th zestasia ths flogas tou erwta sas...

Polloi megaloi erwtes esbhsan parashrmenoi sto bolema mias ka8hmerinothtas.....

mhn afhsete kati tetoio na sumbei ston diko sas...Alliws 8a strepsete kapoia stigmh to blema sto tzaki kai 8a antikrisete entromoi staxtes kai 8raka....

.....Kai tote isws na einai polu arga na anamoxleusete tis staxtes gia na dhmiourghsete mia spi8a pou 8a anazopurwsei th fwtia....